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    I must have received 30 emails saying "Watch Oprah Thursday"... so I did. All of her shows are enlightening (now that I don't have to listen to Dr. Phil every time) but this one struck home. If you saw it and here at my Website you'll understand why. We DO have the Power to change the world around us. But, and here is the part most folks have trouble with, you have to change it from the INSIDE... not the outside.

In other words, if you change "You", the world You live in will change also. We resist change. Unconsciously we cling to the past or present conditions believing that there is no other way for us or by attracting that which we don't want by, get this, simply thinking about it.

Two very important aspects of how this works were mentioned repeatedly by the Panel... made up of people that dramatically change their own lives by embracing the principles of "The Secret" themselves. They were Gratitude and Forgiveness, the First two things you have to learn to bring about Real and Lasting Change in yourself. Of the two Gratitude is actually the easiest.

No matter how bad our situation may seem there is something that we can find to be grateful about. If only that the fact we have oxygen in the atmosphere to breath but there IS something you can be grateful for. Many other things that we take for granted can be added. That fact that you actually woke up, your spouse or lover (in some cases both... LOL), you pets, the roof over your head. Even a homeless person is grateful to find some sort of covering, be it a cardboard box or old tarp, for the night. So... start your own Journey by practicing Gratitude.

One of the Panelists stated, more than once, that in order for any of this to work it must include Action. Action on your part. What that means is that you must Consciously Think and DO what is necessary. In respects to Gratitude that means you must give thanks Consciously... several times a day... even for the little things. And if you have something big to give thanks for, like a new job, a birth in the family, someone overcoming a sickness, then all the better.

Now Forgiveness, that's a hard one. One of the comments was that in every event, even the ones that hurt, there is a lesson for personal growth hidden in it someplace. The thought was that we should give thanks for the opportunity that that event or person brought to us, find the aspect of that event that will help us grow to a better person, and completely forgive the person or event. Completely forgive it and LET IT GO. Never think about that event again. That is the KEY. Every time we recall a painful event we attract those types of energies to us... fact... Law of Nature.

Forgiveness applies not only to those that have hurt us, intentionally or not, but also to ourselves. We have to forgive ourselves before we are capable of forgiving others. That also is a Law of Nature. You can't give what you don't have.

Perhaps forgiving ourselves is the hardest of all. All those thoughts, years past, of  "I should have" or  "Gee, I wish I hadn't said that" or "done that" haunt our minds continually. And because they do (stay in our thoughts) they continue to attract the same type of energies. No amount of thought can change what happened ten years ago, last year, or even ten seconds ago. Dwelling on them only brings more of the like. So the next time one of those thoughts pops into your head (don't tell me they don't) accept it, examine it, identify what the correct action should have been, make a pact with yourself to take THAT action next time, and forgive yourself for that past event, then... LET IT GO... never think of it again. If it tries to "pop" back up, immediately envision something else Positive.  Refuse to hold that old view of yourself. That's not you anyway... that was you then and this is NOW. If necessary, envision yourself taking the correct action... in the NOW. Think about how you are NOW, what you will do NOW, how things would unfold NOW.

The point is if you truly forgive yourself those old thoughts won't have room in your mind because it is too busy thinking about the Magnificent You and all the Great things that are unfolding NOW.  

So, this long winded article on Gratitude and Forgiveness only scratches the surface. The book that started Rhonda Byrne's journey is "The Science of Getting Rich" by Wallace Wattles. You can get a free download of it and 5 other timeless Motivational e-Books at "Here" so grab those e-Books today. Once you read and Take Action (on a personal level) your life can take on a whole new meaning. Also, you can watch a short version of the movie "The Secret" by clicking Here.

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Enjoy,

Layard

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